Written by: jimwideman 5/12/2010 11:25 PM
To lead in ministry you don’t have to be right all the time—which is a relief for me, because I flunked the perfection test a long time ago. But you do need to give up the desire to have people think you’re always right.
Admit it: you like having people think you’re right. It’s just human, especially when we’re leaders. We think it builds confidence in the troops when they see us make decisions and stick to our guns.
Except we aren’t always right. We’re wrong a lot. And people don’t admire leaders who are too proud or scared to admit they don’t know it all.
When you’re willing to let others know you—the real you—then you’ll have integrity. But if your leadership depends on people not knowing what you believe, or what you do when you’re flipping through the cable channels or surfing the net, then you’ll never be an effective leader.
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Re: Leaders Are Examples-2 Great post. By God's grace, I have figured out that life is a whole lot easier when you don't have to waste time, effort and mental energy maintaining an "image" rather than just being yourself. One verse that I always refer to when I start to worry about how others perceive me is John 12:43 - "for they loved the glory that comes from man more than the glory that comes from God."
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Great post. By God's grace, I have figured out that life is a whole lot easier when you don't have to waste time, effort and mental energy maintaining an "image" rather than just being yourself. One verse that I always refer to when I start to worry about how others perceive me is John 12:43 - "for they loved the glory that comes from man more than the glory that comes from God."
Re: Leaders Are Examples-2 thanks Wayne I agree. Over the last few weeks I've had two friends who I thought were examples to the Bod of Christ have moral failures. I want to be as pure in private as I am in public. I also want to be a guy others can trust that I am the same guy no matter where I am. I'm looking forward to sitting down and spending some time with you at the expo
thanks Wayne I agree. Over the last few weeks I've had two friends who I thought were examples to the Bod of Christ have moral failures. I want to be as pure in private as I am in public. I also want to be a guy others can trust that I am the same guy no matter where I am. I'm looking forward to sitting down and spending some time with you at the expo